Keyword: limiting beliefs We say we love them.We say we want what’s best for them.But sometimes, without even realizing it, we hold them back. We fear change. We fear being left behind. And in that fear, we begin to shape our spouse into someone we can manage—not someone they were meant to be. In marriage,…
Keyword: wives criticizing husbands It’s a quiet heartbreak voiced too late:“I wish I hadn’t been so hard on him.” After years of marriage, some women come to a painful realization—often after a divorce or the death of a spouse—that their pattern of criticism drove a wedge in the relationship. They weren’t trying to be cruel….
Life often presents us with circumstances that challenge our sense of self-worth and belonging. Leaving a community, particularly one tied to faith, due to mistreatment or abuse can feel like an immense loss. When those who hurt us remain, retaining the community we cherished, the injustice can be profound. Yet, through God’s Word, we are…
Feeling like you’re not doing anything right can be an overwhelming and distressing experience. It’s common to realize that many of our actions and reactions are influenced by past experiences and upbringing. To break free from these patterns and find peace, we need to seek new ways of being and allow transformative change in our…
Marriage can be a journey filled with joy, companionship, but also challenges and the potential for separation. When faced with the prospect of divorce, it becomes crucial to introspect and understand the changes needed to preserve the relationship. Understanding the Need for Change To avoid divorce, significant changes may be necessary. This starts with introspection…
Life often seems to revolve around assigning blame. Men are criticized for not providing enough, while women are faulted for not being good helpers. This perpetual cycle of blame and defensiveness can lead to deep-seated feelings of inadequacy and the urge to escape from those we believe we have disappointed. In this imperfect world, everyone…
Encountering conflict within church communities can be deeply unsettling. When accusations are thrown around, especially ones that challenge a family’s integrity and character, seeking resolution becomes not only a necessity but also a test of one’s faith in the community and its values. Introduction Churches are meant to be sanctuaries of peace and unity, where…
